SHATTERED (Episode 2)
By
Stan Almendro
We saw in the first episode what SHATTERED and TRUST means We also sat that there are THE CULPRITS shattering the trust in human hearts and THE VICTIMS who are shattered.
This is not to say that every CULPRIT is deliberate because it could be that VICTIMS are so already hurt and shattered in life that it does not take much to trigger a SHATTERING HURT.
In some cases, is can be OVERSENSITIVE hearts who feel and will (If not helped) always find themselves as a SHATTERED VICTIM. We are going out from the basis for VICTIMS who have grown up in DIRE circumstances among insensitive adults and family who all mix and socialize with likeminded people who join in the circle of abuse.
We have over a long period of time had to do with so many folks who are in this group of REAL SHATTERED TRUST hearts and there is a similar sometimes identical thread in the hearts of everyone: Some points of a Background of these dear folk: •
Born into pathetic family circumstances (May not be poverty or struggle (There are people in this) where adults have children only because sex is available, They in themselves (Parents) have NO understanding of LOVE, CARING, and NURTURING A child (They struggle in survival for themselves)
• Neglect
• Rejection Big Time
• A slow POISON of LACK of Maturing MORALITY and ETHIC values and the only ROLE models is what they are born into.
• No understanding at all about the effect this poverty in character is having in a child or children.
• The adults JUST live a life from day to day NOT knowing or want to KNOW there is a higher and better life. From this so much happens in the lives of so many of a SHATTERED VICTIM and end up discovering and experiencing such hurt as:
• The ones they love, and trust (Starting with a dad and mom) abuse them bodily, molest them and expect favors of the SHATTERED VIDTIM CHILD.
• Other family members and people see such children as opportunities to abuse and molest (So the TRUST starts a string of SHATTERDNESS)
• Nothing such victims do is good enough
• It all becomes a vicious circle going from abuse to abuse and the victim later believes this is LOVE and when not abused they are no longer loved.
• As teenagers and young adults, it happens time again by people thought to be trusted by the VICTIM
• Marry abusers divorce only to marry another abuser and so it goes on.
• NOW we have a CRIPPLED in EMOTION VICTIM looking for answers, love, and recognition. Even wanting to connect with the CULPRITS who inflicted all the hurt.
This is so sad and in episode 3 we will give some thought to the mindset of the SHATTERED VICTIMS
We can often find ourselves living in an under priviledged state of mind, heart and life as we allow things, others, life and ourselves to be ruled(And Ruined)by negativity
THERE IS A RICHNESS IN SPIRIT THAT BELONGS TO US HELD DEEP IN THE HEART OF GOD AND IN HIS OUTSTRETCHED HANDS READY TO IMPART SUCH GOOD THINGS TO US
In the months to follow on a weekly basis we will have a series of articles running on this page and included in our website that is titled
1. SHATTERED TRUST
2. SHATTERED FAITH
3. SHATTERED LOVE
4. SHATTERED JOY
The focus will be on HEALING, RESTORATION and A GREATER LIFE IN JESUS
Please support these studies and share it yes let us spread the Word of God far afield and see His Power at work changing lives You can email us it stanpoetry@outlook.com
Be Blessed
June and Stan Almendro
"""SHATTERED TRUST"""
BY
Stan Almendro
The intention is to do a series on """ SHATTERED TRUST"" ove the next month or two with the purpose of RELEASING and HEALING of so many victims carrying too much baggage for far too many years !!!
We want to identify as much as we can point out the source but more importantly encourage victims to stop digging in the DARK HOLE of the past and to risre up in NEWNESS of LIFE
We are told that if ANYBODY be in Chist He and She are new creatures and ALL THINGS become NEW and BEAUTIFUL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have it in my heart to do something on ""SHATTERED TRUST"" Over the years of giving counsel and in my child years it is both so obvious and sad to see people carrying baggage of so much hurt because of such unfortunate circumstances!!!!! SHATTERING THEIR TRUST COMPLETELY I DO NOT WANT TO LAUNCH OUT ON THIS WITH NO IMPACT OR APPRECIATED NEED UNLESS I CAN HAVE SOME INDICATION FROM YOU DEAR VISITORS AND FRIENDS THAT YOU FEEL IT IS A REAL MATTER AND YOU FEEL IT CAN SERVE A PURPOSE IT MIGHT BE OVER 3 OR 4 ARTICLES YOUR COMMENTS(NOT JUST A LIKE) WILL BE APPRECIATED YOU MIGHT WISH TO PRIVATELY INBOX ME WITH YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE WHICH WITHOUT USING YOUR NAME USE IT IN MY ARTICLES IT MIGHT JUST HELP SOME STRUGGLING SOUL OUT THERE
June and Stan Almendro
"""WALKING BY AND IN FAITH"""
By
Stan Almendro
WE AND SOCIETY ARE MAKING FAR TOO MUCH NOISE ABOUT FAITH AND WE CAN SPEND A LIFETIME AS BUSY FOOLS AND STILL NOT HAVE GROWN ONE IOTA IN IT(FAITH)
It is fairly simple and has guided me and prompted me in my 65 years as a Child of God
1. Firstly it is the smallest of seeds of desire to please Him that germinates in our hearts not satisfied by or with knowledge but a screaming echo in our hearts that whispers""" I DELIGHT TO DO THY WILL OH LORD""
2. SECONDLY IT IS JUST STEPPING OUT YES WALKING ON THE WATERS and WAVES of LIFE AND SOMETIMES THREATENED BUT WALKING KNOWING
a. He (Jesus) is right here on the waters of life with me
b.THEN A VERY IMPORTANT THING IS THAT AS WE STEP OUT YES LAUNCH OUT INTO THE DEEP WATERS OF LIFE ""WE IF WE GO TO THE LEFT OR RIGHT(MAKING WRONG STEPS) WE WILL HEAR HIM SAY ""THIS IS THE WAY WALK IN IT""
Trust this has been some sort of blessing and valued instruction Be Blessed June and Stan Almendro
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